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Giving Comes Full Circle at The Hospice Resale Shop

When you walk through the front door of The Hospice Resale Shop you are greeted by friendly faces and a sea of treasures. Many of those treasures come with a story and others one can only wonder about. Donors give an abundance of items each day, ranging from clothing, furniture, vintage pieces, and unique things you don’t know you need until they “speak” to you. There’s something for everyone.

The store attracts an array of people, and many make the shop a regular visit within their weekly routine. Their familiar faces brighten with anticipation as they navigate through the aisles searching for an item that makes them smile. We learn their names and they become our friends. The Hospice Resale Shop is so much more than just a thrift store; it’s a warm, inviting place which holds memories of the lives within our community.

Each week or two, an incredibly special customer visits enthusiastically to see what new arrivals await him in the book section. AJ, a Conover School student and member of Concordia Church, spends most days with his Aunt Jerri Alice and Cousin Maggie Lou Alice. Twenty-three years ago, AJ was born with a brain defect. The doctors said he would never walk or eat on his own, but this precious boy was surrounded by mountains of love along with countless prayers. Over time, the family watched blessings take place in light of a heartbreaking diagnosis. AJ’s “Grammy” was one prayer warrior who persistently prayed for him. God answered those prayers, allowing AJ to overcome some of the barriers the doctors said he would face. He walks, bringing joy to everyone he meets, and he enjoys eating his favorite foods such as gummies, Chick-Fil-A, and Dr. Pepper. He might even share with you!

On a typical morning, AJ rides along with his aunt (sometimes Grammy comes, too) to drop Cousin Mary Elizabeth off for classes at Lenoir-Rhyne University. Then the fun begins with a stop by The Hospice Resale Shop. With his contagious smile, AJ steps into the shop and asks for Kevin, his favorite sales associate. He and Kevin take off towards the back of the shop where shelves are filled with every size and color of book. Bibles are what he’s searching for, and Kevin is happy to assist his buddy. AJ looks closely and inspects the details, then chooses one or two. He collects them, but he is not keeping them for himself. AJ has a mission…a ministry. Kevin knows how important finding a Bible is to AJ, so he always has a backup plan. Since he can’t stand the thought of AJ leaving empty handed, he keeps a Bible or two behind the register, just in case AJ can’t locate one on the shelves.

AJ totes a Bible-filled bookbag everywhere he goes; he’s in search of souls with whom he can share. Some of the bibles are worn and have beautiful gold-edged pages. Others are filled with neon highlighted verses that were sure to have held special meaning to a previous reader. “You have one?” AJ can be heard saying as he holds up a Bible to a new friend he meets.

“He’s a blessing in life. God took what could be perceived as a tragedy and made it beautiful,” said Jerri Alice. “He has child-like faith and opens conversations with people we would not otherwise meet.”

AJ impacts the lives of those he encounters, just as Carolina Caring impacts lives by providing exceptional care to those in need. The Hospice Resale Shop donors play a significant role as well when they part with and generously give their belongings, as well as those of their loved ones, which in turn provides essential resources for patients who cannot afford the care they need. These donations create an unbroken circle, making boundless things possible. They serve as a reminder that human kindness still flourishes in an uncertain and seemingly unfair world.

Some of AJ’s family members have had the blessing of being served by Carolina Caring, the nonprofit organization which oversees The Hospice Resale Shop. This is just part of the reason AJ’s Aunt enjoys giving back to the organization. “They were very good to our family,” remarked Jerri Alice. “You can call them in a crisis and know you’re not alone.”

“AJ always brightens our day when he visits us at the shop, and we get to see the look of happiness on his face when he finds more Bibles to buy for his bookbag. We are just so grateful that we can be a part of helping AJ serve his mission of sharing Bibles with those around him. He just spreads joy everywhere he goes,” shared Charity Hand, The Hospice Resale Shop Store Manager. “When you donate your items to us, not only are you giving to our mission of serving patients of Carolina Caring, but you are also giving these things a second chance to be used and treasured by someone else. You have a choice of where to donate and we are so grateful for the donors who choose us. Sometimes, these items move on to serve an even greater meaning and purpose, such as AJ’s Bibles! You just don’t know the impact of what your donation can make on someone’s life.”

The Hospice Resale Shop, located at 51 14th Ave NE, is part of the Carolina Caring Foundation, which supports patients under hospice care as well as Carolina Caring’s Cardinal Kids program.

All net proceeds from sales of gently used clothing, jewelry, furniture and household goods directly serve patients of Carolina Caring.

A Gift of Lifelong Friendship Brings Peace at the End of Life

Throughout history, differences in race, ethnicity, economic status, and religion have sometimes been used as obstacles to keep people separate. But true friendship surpasses all those barriers.

Anyone who has enjoyed a lifelong, loyal friendship considers themselves blessed - they always have someone to count on throughout the turning tides of life. Charlie Connor and Harold Wilson, both natives of Catawba County, and graduates of Bunker Hill High School in Claremont, were those types of friends. Although a difference in age, the small-town friendship soon blossomed into a special bond.

Sports were a common interest between the young men. Harold was a 1968 graduate of Bunker Hill, where he was one of the first Black athletes to run track, play football, and basketball. He then went on to proudly serve his country in the Army; including Vietnam. Charlie graduated from Bunker Hill High School a few years after Harold in 1975.

The years flew by, as they do, but the men remained close. A few years ago, Charlie realized he hadn’t heard from Harold in a while. He learned that Harold was in the hospital, so of course, Charlie and another mutual friend went to visit. They soon discovered that Harold was not doing well and needed surgery, but the doctor told him that his heart was too weak. Charlie asked Harold, “Do you know how sick you are?”

Charlie knew time was crucial to help his friend. Another schoolmate, Jennie Connor (no relation to Charlie), came to mind as someone who might have resources to help. At the time, Jennie was the Executive Director of Catawba County United Way. She not only referred Harold to Carolina Caring for hospice services but assisted with obtaining the information needed to get placement for his care.

A plan fell into place and that very day, Harold was transferred to the Hospice House at Carolina Caring in Newton. When Harold arrived and looked around, he said jokingly to his dear friend Charlie, “How did you get a Black man into a place like this?” Charlie smiled and replied that it was not about his color but about his health. This was where he needed to be.

Harold was blessed to spend his final hours surrounded by his loving family and friends, in a place devoted to providing heartfelt care, comfort, and peace to those experiencing the end of life’s journey. No one knows when their time will come to a close, but many know in their hearts, without a doubt, that the gift of true friendship, which transcends everything, is priceless in this world.

Annette Walker Celebrates 30 Years of Service

Annette Walker, Director of Grief Services at Carolina Caring, was recently honored for 30 years of service. She started her career with Carolina Caring in May 1992 as a social worker and counselor helping those in some of the most difficult times of their lives.

 

A Tea themed “Thir-TEA” year celebration for her love of sweet tea was enjoyed by Annette’s family and the Carolina Caring staff. There was no shortage of kind words and admiration in speeches given by those who work alongside the honoree.

 

“Annette’s passion for her work is unparalleled,” says Kelly Tate, Vice President of Community Relations at Carolina Caring. “She walks alongside those who are grieving allowing them to share their story; and helps them to find their way through grief, in their own time. She is truly a blessing to many.”

 

During her tenure, Annette has mentored graduate students in the social work and counseling fields. She has provided guidance to hospice social workers, chaplains, and counselors imparting her wisdom and experience. She now dedicates herself to the bereaved families whose loved ones have been cared for as well as working with people from the community who have suffered a loss.

 

Long-time friend and co-worker, Kim Dowell says, “Annette has made it her life’s work to ease the heartache of people facing difficult days. I have experienced her wisdom and insight on a personal level as we have navigated life during our thirty-year friendship. I am so thankful our community has her as a resource and that I have her as a friend.”

 

Annette’s knowledge and experience with Carolina Caring goes far beyond excellence. Her dedication to families and friendship with her teammates is unmatched. Thank you Annette, for the numerous gifts and talents you’ve shared with so many.

 

“In recognition of my thirty years at Carolina Caring, I was touched by the attention given to the details of the celebration party; my favorite drink, dessert, and decorations made me feel special. I am humbled by the kind words spoken and I feel valued and appreciated,” shared Annette. “I was once more reminded of how blessed I am to work at Carolina Caring and be able to fulfill my passion of serving the community.”